To the person who was wondering about the word queer, I'm bi and me and my lesbian friend honestly don't mind using the word queer to describe ourselves, but I know that to some people it's offensive or derogatory. It's sort've like how like if someone was to call me abnormal I would probably start crying bc of my parents referring non-LGBT as normal, to others they might've had homophobic encounters with the word queer like I did with normal. It's just up to the person. Hope this helps x.
(thanks for sharing a response!)