I’ve always wanted to ask someone who doesn’t identify as their physical sex about their sexuality, but every theoretical way of asking them that I think of just winds up being transphobic. Any advice?

I don’t think I can properly give advice as I myself am not transgender, and wouldn’t want to suggest something that could accidentally offend. Here are some small suggestions that could help, but aren’t anything major.

I think making it clear beforehand that your questions are genuine and good intentioned is wise, and also getting their permission to be asked questions about their sexuality/sex. Like, don’t just jump into it, ask if they’re comfortable talking about it first.

If anyone else has any ideas, feel free to reply to this or reblog a response! 🙂